Is Porn Addiction Coaching Worth It — or Just Expensive Motivation?
Benefits of Working with a NoFap Coach (4 minute read)
Being in the NoFap community has many drawbacks, one of which is the echo-chamber effect that makes you believe that “quitting porn is one of the hardest things, the biggest challenge a modern man can face”.
I’m not saying it is easy to quit porn if you’ve been watching for decades. At the risk of sounding woo-woo-i, places like the NoFap reddit changes the way you think, and helps you manifest a worse reality (where you’re more likely to struggle with quitting PMO).
Yes, manifestation and conditioning work both ways. If you bombard yourself with negative influences, you are bound to have difficulties quitting porn (especially if you’ve just stopped.)
I’ve managed to quit porn after experimenting and deliberating it for about 5 months. However, I have gotten used to browsing the NoFap reddit on a weekly basis. Needless to say, even tho I have managed to not PMO for 292 days for my first “streak” (by the way this is a terrible idea, to count the days. Think about it. If you never plan to watch porn again, what is the point of knowing how many days it has been?), yet that first streak has been the hardest time with the most urges ever, not just because I had limited information on what are the core habits to make living porn-free effortless (and how to be consistent), but also due to my reward brain (instead of detoxing from PMO) replacing PMO with binging content.
A slightly less destructive, but very much terrible way to be free from porn.
So what is the takeaway here?
Well, instead of deliberating, replacing porn with other bad habits, having difficulty with urges, you can reach out to someone who has already been through the journey, and is now living porn-free. Not “in recovery”, not a “recovering porn addict”, but someone who’s made the habitual change, and the mindset shifts, and has been free for years. Working on making his coaching methodology better, his knowledge base more extensive while coaching others for the last year.
NoFap coaching, quit-porn coaching is the short way to quit porn. You don’t need it. Just like you don’t need an instructor to learn to drive a car. But it is recommended, because the instructor can warn you when you’re about to make a mistake, and show you the right ways to not crash your car.
In building your porn free life, I show you the right mindset to follow, and guide you through the change as your “superpowers” (a combination of heightened vigor, energy and ambition) start kicking in.
In our coaching we track your progress outside of sessions too, not just to keep you accountable, but to see when you’re about to make a mistake, when you will be experiencing urges (for example, when your sleep is inconsistent, you will have higher stress levels that may cause urges, depending on your past PMO use.)
In conclusion, with the right coach, you can speed up the journey 10-30x. You will still need to learn, put in the work and discipline, analyze, but it will be done with guidance of an expert. There may be no guarantee you won’t relapse, just like there is no guarantee you won’t crash your car during a driving lesson. But, I will be there to press the brakes when things go crazy, and steer you back to the right path.
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That’s it. That’s why I offer Coaching. To help others. It feels amazing when you can make a real difference for someone. It is like a high. Anyways, if you’re looking for help, you can:
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Have an epic day,
Nick Ambrus